<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Life Updates on Sumner Evans</title><link>https://sumnerevans.com/tags/life-updates/</link><description>Recent content in Life Updates on Sumner Evans</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 12:05:24 -0600</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://sumnerevans.com/tags/life-updates/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>On Being Gay</title><link>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/on-being-gay/</link><pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><guid>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/on-being-gay/</guid><description>&lt;link rel="stylesheet" href="https://sumnerevans.com/css/vendors/admonitions.53cd9f8afa9d9a8ac09093f668df057bc6d0f4bbd0886f39991a7b99934a7432.css" integrity="sha256-U82fivqdmorAkJP2aN8Fe8bQ9LvQiG85mRp7mZNKdDI=" crossorigin="anonymous"&gt;&#10; &lt;div class="admonition warning"&gt;&#10; &lt;div class="admonition-header"&gt;&lt;svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" viewBox="0 0 512 512"&gt;&lt;path d="M256 32c14.2 0 27.3 7.5 34.5 19.8l216 368c7.3 12.4 7.3 27.7 .2 40.1S486.3 480 472 480L40 480c-14.3 0-27.6-7.7-34.7-20.1s-7-27.8 .2-40.1l216-368C228.7 39.5 241.8 32 256 32zm0 128c-13.3 0-24 10.7-24 24l0 112c0 13.3 10.7 24 24 24s24-10.7 24-24l0-112c0-13.3-10.7-24-24-24zm32 224a32 32 0 1 0 -64 0 32 32 0 1 0 64 0z"/&gt;&lt;/svg&gt;&#10; &lt;span&gt;Warning&lt;/span&gt;&#10; &lt;/div&gt;&#10; &lt;div class="admonition-content"&gt;&#10; &lt;p&gt;This post is personal. If you normally read my blog for my travel updates or&#10;my software engineering takes, this is a very different kind of post.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;If you don&amp;rsquo;t want to read about my personal life, this is a good post to skip.&lt;/p&gt;&#10; &lt;/div&gt;&#10; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s always awkward to come out, but the lead-up is always the worst part. Once&#10;it&amp;rsquo;s done, it&amp;rsquo;s done and I move on with my life. I have been out to my family&#10;and most of my friends for a few years now, but as one of my friends described&#10;it, I&amp;rsquo;m about as out as the sun on a cloudy day. Well, I guess it&amp;rsquo;s time for the&#10;sun to shine a bit more.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>I'm Joining Can/Am Technologies</title><link>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/joining-canam/</link><pubDate>Mon, 07 Apr 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/joining-canam/</guid><description>&lt;center&gt;&#10;&lt;a href="https://canamtechnologies.com" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;picture style="max-width:50%" class="no-zoom no-dim"&gt;&#10; &#10; &lt;img src="https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/joining-canam/images/CanAmLogo.svg"&#10; alt="Can/Am Technologies"&#10; loading="lazy"&#10; &gt;&#10; &#10; &lt;/picture&gt;&#10; &lt;/a&gt;&#10;&lt;/center&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;Today I am happy to announce that I have joined&#10;&lt;a&#10; href="https://canamtechnologies.com"&#10; title="(opens in new tab)"&#10; rel="external" target="_blank"&#10; &gt;Can/Am Technologies&lt;/a&gt; as a Senior Implementation&#10;Tech Lead.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;Can/Am makes a point of sale product for local governments called&#10;&lt;a&#10; href="https://www.goteller.com/"&#10; title="(opens in new tab)"&#10; rel="external" target="_blank"&#10; &gt;Teller&lt;/a&gt;. I&#10;&lt;a&#10; href="https://sumnerevans.com/portfolio/#experience-canam-software-developer"&gt;worked for Can/Am in the past&#10;as a software developer&lt;/a&gt;&#10;and I am excited to return after nearly a decade in a new capacity. I will be&#10;leading the engineering team responsible for building integrations with&#10;third-party vendors. I&amp;rsquo;m excited about the opportunity this position will afford&#10;me to leverage my experience&#10;&lt;a&#10; href="https://sumnerevans.com/portfolio/#experience-adjunct-mines"&gt;teaching&#10;and mentoring students at Mines&lt;/a&gt;&#10;in a new challenge of leading and mentoring a technical team.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Becoming a Homeowner</title><link>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/becoming-a-homeowner/</link><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -0600</pubDate><guid>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/becoming-a-homeowner/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I recently became a homeowner. Here are a couple of reflections that I&amp;rsquo;ve had&#10;about this new phase of life:&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;ul&gt;&#10;&lt;li&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;The permanence of owning my own house is nice. The first time this really hit&#10;me was when I was putting up some decorations. I realized that it was &lt;em&gt;my&lt;/em&gt;&#10;walls that I was nailing things in to. I don&amp;rsquo;t have to answer to anyone about&#10;the holes in my wall if I move out.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;/li&gt;&#10;&lt;li&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;The responsibilities are a bit overwhelming. There are lots of maintenance&#10;things that I need to remember to do, and I just hope that I can keep up with&#10;them.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;/li&gt;&#10;&lt;li&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;I feel kinda old now. I literally had an hour long discussion about mortgage&#10;rates the other day with a friend.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;/li&gt;&#10;&lt;/ul&gt;</description></item><item><title>2022 In Review</title><link>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/2022-review/</link><pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0600</pubDate><guid>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/2022-review/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;This year was a good year. I&amp;rsquo;m going to list a few things that I&amp;rsquo;m thankful for,&#10;in no particular order.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;I&amp;rsquo;m thankful for&amp;hellip;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>I Joined Beeper to Help Build the Future of Chat</title><link>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/joining-beeper/</link><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2021 08:00:00 -0600</pubDate><guid>https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/joining-beeper/</guid><description>&lt;center&gt;&#10;&lt;a href="https://beeper.com" target="_blank" aria-label="Open image link"&gt;&lt;picture style="max-width:50%" class="no-zoom no-dim"&gt;&#10; &#10; &lt;img src="https://sumnerevans.com/posts/life-updates/joining-beeper/images/beeper.png"&#10; alt=""&#10; loading="lazy"&#10; &gt;&#10; &#10; &lt;/picture&gt;&#10; &lt;/a&gt;&#10;&lt;/center&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;Today I am happy to announce that I have joined &lt;a&#10; href="https://beeper.com"&#10; title="(opens in new tab)"&#10; rel="external" target="_blank"&#10; &gt;Beeper&lt;/a&gt;, a&#10;startup that is building the future of chat by connecting all of your chat&#10;networks together in a single application. I will be primarily working on&#10;building bridges to other chat networks to bring more people into the Beeper&#10;ecosystem.&lt;/p&gt;&#10;&lt;p&gt;Beeper is built on top of the &lt;a&#10; href="https://matrix.org"&#10; title="(opens in new tab)"&#10; rel="external" target="_blank"&#10; &gt;Matrix protocol&lt;/a&gt; which is an&#10;open, decentralized communication protocol. I have been interested in Matrix&#10;since college (we used it for computer science club communications), and have&#10;been following its development closely for a few years. One of the biggest&#10;factors that has caused me to be interested in the protocol is that it is&#10;decentralized by design via federation. That means that anyone can run a Matrix&#10;homeserver and &lt;em&gt;federate&lt;/em&gt; (communicate) with all of the other Matrix homeservers&#10;in the federation. This is very similar to how email servers can communicate&#10;with one another (you can email people on Gmail from an Outlook.com email, for&#10;example), and you can even run your own email server!&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>